If you’ve never heard of it, it started over on An Island Life.I ask a question….I answer it….and then you answer it too!
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___________________________________________So, for this week’s question:
Q: When did you or when will you know you are done having babies?
A: This is such a question I am currently battling with. My hubby is done. I am not. I have 2 beautiful, healthy, happy boys and I know I should be grateful but I would love to have another baby! Just to even know it was my last baby. I don’t have the room in my home for a girl and a boy could easily bunk with G, I even have a crib set that matches his room. Some pink in my life would be good though. Either way I would be happy for either a boy or girl!
Ha this is the ongoing question in our house, my husband really wants more (like the Duggars), I would be ok w/ 2. So we compromised and have decided to try for one more baby, and he will get fixed if we have one more. Now hopefully it will be a girl, not a third boy!
We just had our first baby in September. I know that we both want at least one more. I used to say I wanted three but I am not sure now. I know that my husband only wants two. So after our next child we will probably be going through the same thing as you.
I think I now know why i can not do these i have to PAY to do these …:( I will use yours on my blog but i can’t get a code so i am going to tag people…wish i could get the code but it is telling me i have to upgrade to do it…so my answer to your question is i have 2 little girls 3 and 7 months and i am done financialy we can’t have more and medicaly i can’t have more ….I would have loved to have more if i had the money and not so sick all the time so my two angels are it for me 🙂
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It should let you use MR. Linky without paying for it. You do however have to edit your typing layout a bit. That took me a bit to understand though. If you upgrade its $5 a year though.
When you are done catching your breath, go back to school, get a job, and visit blogs with fun memes. Oh, and when you hear a baby cry you can think all those thoughts everyone else was thinking when your kids were drying. It’s really nice.
This one is easy. It was during my 4th month on hospital bedrest while pregnant with the twins. The high risk team informed my husband an me that regardless how this pregnancy ended, I would not survive a 3rd.
We never longed for more children. We feel blessed with our family.
We have 1 and I think we will have 1 more. I would love 3 total, but my husband is afraid of being outnumbered.
I’m with you on wanting more children (not yet though) — mine are 20 months and 8 months old. Hubby jokes that he’s done, but I know he wants more too. As for “how do you know”…not sure how to answer that one. My guess…you’ll have another and it WILL be a girl 🙂
I want more kids, so hopefully if I ever meet someone they’ll be on the same page. I just assume I’ll know when I’m “done”, but I’m not really sure how all of that works, lol. Good luck with whatever you decide!
Well, we knew we would be done at two…regardless of the gender. So, I had my 2nd child on a Wednesday, and I had my tubal ligation the next morning. 🙂 I wanted to recover from L&D and surgery all at once. It is a tough decision for most people…while I'd love a girl, it's just not in the cards for us. 🙂
I dont know when we will know we are done…we only have 1 right now, and I know I am not done, but I am not sure when I will know.
This is easy. We had to have a girl. We have 2 girls from previous marriages. We had two boys together but we knew we had to have a girl. We did and we are done! lol
having two so very close together makes me DONE
My children are grown, I had 3 sons. I always wanted a big family and thought of having more children. I would have loved to have a daughter.
I made the mistake of telling Hubby after the birth of our daughter (we already had a son @ home) that he either got fixed or we had one more (I was in the hospital after just having given birth). I really wish I hadn’t said that as he had a vasectomy about 4 weeks later. I would love to have one more.
Good luck!
This is so tough.. I want more definitely.. however, for me I need to lose some more weight..get myself a little healthier.. I just hope I don’t wait too long 🙂 We have two..and my daughter is now 18 months.. I am so sad that time just flies by 🙂 My husband is a little older than me.. so he feels the time crunch 🙂